Living in a sugar world comes with many responsibilities and expectations from both parties. A sugar relationship is governed by a set of rules or terms mutually agreed upon by both partners, taking into account the needs and expectations of a sugar daddy and sugar baby. As in any other relationship, the success of an ideal sugar relationship lies in the bond of trust, honest communication, compatibility and, above all, putting everything on the table, even complex issues such as allocation, without any fear of judgment.
Talking about money can be really uncomfortable, even in a sugar relationship, but there's no denying that it's an integral part of any sugar relationship. If you're worried about bringing up the subject of allowance for discussion, that's okay. You might think you'll come across as someone who's just out for greed. However, like everything else in a relationship, there is always a right time to discuss your allowance with a sugar daddy. The key is not to rush and get to know each other first.
Wait for the moment!
So you've spent weeks perfecting your sugar baby profile, checking out profiles of Sugar Daddies and you've finally found one that you think would be a great match. What do you do now? Go straight to talking about money? No, not that. First you chat and work your way up to a first date. Once you get a date, you go out, have fun and get to know each other. You don't want to seem too desperate or scare off a sugar daddy by talking about the allowance on the first date. The key is not to rush and focus on connecting with him on multiple levels. However, you also don't want to take too long to ask, because by then you will have already invested time and energy and walking away will become a little more difficult.
We suggest that you save the assignment conversation for the second or third date and, when the time comes, realize that you don't need to feel uncomfortable because assignments are part of any sugar arrangement. If you are still confused about how to broach the subject of the assignment, here are some tips to guide you through the process.
Determining your assignment
Several Sugar Babies make the mistake of determining their allowance with respect to their looks, physique, beauty and attractiveness. They begin to take into account their attributes and compare the amount of the allowance to that. What you need to know is that before you were a sugar baby you were a human being, and you still are a human being. Thinking that your allowance should be equivalent to how beautiful you are is definitely the wrong way to go!
Instead, the allowance you receive should be in line with your needs and also be directly proportional to the attention you give your sugar daddy. A sugar baby's monthly allowance can depend on dozens of different factors, such as the amount required for a comfortable lifestyle, your monthly rent, your daily expenses and more. Determine an appropriate monetary range with your needs in mind.
Ask for
So you've met someone, someone you clicked with, someone with the same interests and mindset. You have also decided how many times you will see each other during a week or monthly period, along with the activities involved.
Once you have agreed on the terms, it is your right to request an appropriate allowance from your sugar daddy. Be honest with your sugar daddy about the amount you want and even how you want it transferred to you. Decide what happens if you don't meet for a fortnight, how will the allowance be calculated then? Be direct and open. Your sugar daddy should be willing to have an open discussion about this and if he makes you feel guilty when you bring this up, he may not be the one. However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't take his or her opinions into account.
Dimensionala
A common but reliable technique is to first ask for their rank. This will give you an idea of how much they are willing to spoil you. However, we suggest you be as subtle as possible when asking this, as you don't want to come across as someone who is too pushy and wants to get into really personal details. If this is your first arrangement, asking this question will be even easier. When he asks what you can bring to the arrangement, subtly register the fact that this is partially dependent on the level of support on his side. Let him pick up the honesty and connect the dots for you.
Trust is for the long term
Sugar Daddies don't usually look for bargains and that's something most Sugar Babies forget. They know there are plenty of fish in the sea, but this is equally true for you. After getting to know them, your next step should be to show them that you can give it your all when it comes to meeting their needs. When they finally ask you for your assignment, answer confidently with the number you have in mind. Don't let this number you have in mind or this conversation overwhelm you. An experienced sugar daddy will detect your nervousness in a moment.
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